20 Truths About People Who Are Too Anxious, But Also Too Kind

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“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen,” wrote Elisabeth Kübler-Ross.

Adversity Gives Us Empathy And Kindness – But It Can Also Give Us Unbearable Anxiety.

Here Are 20 Things To Know When You Love Someone Like This:

1. They Have No Problem Apologizing And Admitting Fault.

What they struggle with is admitting when someone has hurt them.

2. They Are Deeply Perceptive.

3. This Person Is Both A Lover And A Fighter.

Don’t be fooled by their vulnerability. They are fiercely protective of the people they care for.

4. They Are Much More Focused On Giving Than On Receiving, Often Attempting To Pour From An Empty Cup.

5. The Way They Choose To Treat You Is Not Conditional On The Way That You Treat Them.

Your partner’s behavior is a reflection of their own heart – not of yours.

6. The Worrying Is Constant.

Logic won’t do much to solve it – your partner knows their fears aren’t reasonable. All you can do is provide reassurance and love.

7. They Will Forgive Too Easily And Too Often.

Don’t take advantage of this.

8. Your Anxious And Kind Partner Is Unlikely To Play Power Games.

Power isn’t what they want from you.

9. Their Clinginess Comes From A Fear Of Abandonment.

Indulge it, and it will fade as their trust in you grows. Fight it, and it will become stronger.

10. They Will Feel Their Emotions Very Deeply – Even When They Come From Another Person’s Pain, And Not Their Own.

This can cause agony, but it can also build empathy.

11. They May Seem Like They Are Over-Apologizing Sometimes.

 

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